I glance down at the chocolate splotches lining my
fingertips. “You look so happy,” Ken said to me, a moment before, causing me to
notice my hands and the empty white china plate in front of me. A warm, gooey,
chocolate-filled croissant. I had just finished my first one ever, and it was
amazing. Biting into the rich, chocolate cream encased in a flakey, buttery
shell was like finding a piece of gold in a lush, verdant field—already
beautiful and picturesque by its own right, but now even more wonderful of an
experience. Analogies aside, this freshly-baked European pastry was, as the
Italians say, “Perfecto!” As I ease back into reality, Ken smiles and continues,
“You look really happy when you’re eating.”
I am happy when I’m eating, it’s true. I’ve always been that
way. Food is a huge blessing and comfort to me. Perhaps more so than the
average person because I know what it’s like to go without. To not have enough
food. To be in want. Growing up on simpler means taught me the value of food—and
especially good food—very quickly. Food is a gift. And good food is an
elaborate present, enclosed in the finest paper, filled with bounty and best
unwrapped by a grateful receiver.
Back to the croissant that had miraculously vanished from my
plate. It was one of the best breads I’ve ever tasted. I’m thankful to be in
the city of Florence, enjoying the many offerings of this pleasant city. Ken
and I arrived here a couple days ago, after some big disappointments during our
travels. I guess no story is really great without struggle. We experienced our
first major difficulty in the form of a less than ideal hotel situation a
couple days ago. I booked accommodations at a hillside inn that seemed lovely
from the photos and reviews. However, when we got there, after disembarking
from our cruise and then spending a few hours driving from Venice to Florence,
I immediately felt uncomfortable. The room, sparse and muggy, felt closed in
and hot, unusually so. I developed a headache, which turned into a sour stomach
and a poor attitude quickly. The air conditioner was broken, the concierge told
us, and no one would fix it until Monday (the day we checked out.) Then we
realized that our room’s mini-fridge was broken, too. Warm drinking water in
cramped, scorching quarters sounded awful. There was no ice to be found, either.
My first time in this part of Italy, with the sun blaring down and a room
temperature hovering around 80+ degrees felt just horrible. Again, Ken tried to
convince the concierge that the room was not suitable. The lady refused to give
us a refund although all her others rooms were booked. But our reservation
promised air conditioning, we said. She was relentless. So, feeling nauseated
and feverish, I asked Ken what are options were. Together, we made a hard
decision—our first one that involved losing quite a bit of money.
We decided to go elsewhere.
From that point on, our situation improved immensely. We
found a boutique inn just a few miles outside of the heart of Florence and 20
minutes closer to town than our previous hotel. It was a gamble picking our
next place to stay, but I felt God’s peace about giving up our desire to save
money and instead, placing health and wellness as top priorities in this
instance. Our new hotel was impeccably clean, the staff friendly and welcoming,
and the air conditioning worked great! There was even a pool, free breakfast
and parking included in the cost. Still a bit disappointed from the
nonrefundable costs of our previous booking, I started to pray that God would
give me a heart of forgiveness and hope, amidst the sense of loss I felt. I
believe He’s been doing that and now, two days later, I feel refreshed and
encouraged by the restful nights we’ve had in such a comfortable setting! I can
see now what a huge blessing it was to be closer to the city, and have
incredible food provided each morning as a means of starting the day without
having to look for food. We even grew close with our concierge, Asselli, a
sincere and social guy in his 20s, who loves to travel and has spent in Britain
and America. His English skills allowed us to overcome communication barriers.
Asselli pointed out all the top spots for us to visit in Florence and kindly
shared Italian customs and traditions with us, in hopes of increasing our
understanding about why people do things in a certain way.
For instance, we learned that most Italians eat lunch at
12:30 p.m. or 1 p.m. each day. Dinner is at 7:30 p.m. or 8 p.m. Italians, he
commented, are very rigid about when mealtimes take place. They refuse to eat
or serve meals outside of those times, for the most part. Upon telling us this,
he chuckled and pointed out that Italians are “very traditional.” But coffee,
he said, can be enjoyed at any time. Asselli also educated us about how
Italians don’t typically put ice in things. This topic came up when we asked
where the ice machine was located. “Ice is bad for your stomach the Italians
think,” he said.
We are learning so many things while abroad. Driving, in
particular, is very different in Italy and Greece than what I’m familiar with.
I’ve observed that locals drive much higher than the speed limit, don’t use
their turn signals (or rarely use them, as if by accident), and prefer to drive
in the middle of two lanes if they are unsure about which lane is moving
faster. I’ve seen at least a dozen drivers do this in our two days of having
our own car. It’s much like a circus when motorcycles and scooters are also
involved. They can pass on either side and will do whatever it takes to get
around slower-moving vehicles, even if it means putting themselves at risk.
But our experience with the food and culture here in Italy
has been delightful, even with the near-death driving experiences and poor
hospitality and service at our previous hotel. I’m thankful that our stories
aren’t colored by only “good and seemingly perfect” situations. It’s in the
trials, the discomfort and the disappointment where God is able to show us
opportunities for growth, emotionally and spiritually. Ken and I are able to
work through these things and grow stronger in our marriage. I truly feel
blessed to be able to say that we are embracing the good, the bad, and the
ugly, in hopes of finding real, meaningful life. Life that is sometimes tucked
away and hidden in the darkness, forged by patience and forgiveness.
Well, it’s time to drive through Tuscany. The next couple
days we are visiting the seaside town of Sorrento. I look forward to sharing
more with you soon!